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      Loved or used?


I was planning on staying single until I went back to school, but there were so many options I just didn't know what to do, or how to resist. There were three guys that liked me, but I only knew of two. When I was walking down to the store I ran into a guy(stephan) that I had danced with at a party on valentines day, and it didn't mean anything. I didn't think anything of it, because I kept hearing he was a player and only dates girls for sex. But when I was in line at the store he was with a couple of guys that I somewhat knew. He asked me if I needed a ride anywhere or if I just wanted to hang out. I decided to go, because I had no other plans. As I get into the car he asked me if I want to go out to his place and hang out and I agreed. When we got to his house we watched a movie and the guys played video-games. Everyone was drinking and I was the only girl there. The other guys went outside and it was only Stephan and I. He moved closer to me and we started to kiss!.. everything was going way too fast and we ended up having sex. I was on the verge of being drunk and he was sober. It was my first time. After he dropped me off at 4am, I figured I'd never hear from him again. Not until the fourth day after all that happened he called and asked if I wanted to hang out. So he came and got me and we hung out. He was telling me how I was the greatest girl, and how I had the best smile you could ever see. I was falling for all that and I actually thought that he loved me. He would call me every day, come over every day and he would even help around the house fixing everything that needed to be fixed. He was like a dream come true. The only thing that was bothering me was I kept hearing he was a player and that he was cheating on me with his Ex girl friend. I didn't want to believe what the other people were saying, but I just couldn't believe Stephan even though I wanted to so much. I always confronted him when his own friends would tell me he's cheating and that he's bragging to all the people in this classes that we had sex after I told him that it wasn't anyone's business except ours. He told me that he wasn't cheating on me and that he wasn't bragging during class. The stupid thing was I believed him and I still loved him. After about a week everything started to get rocky. He wouldn't call for days at a time, he would lie to me about where he's going, and when he told me he was coming over, he would go and hang out with his friends and ditch me. Things had got even worse. He wouldn't call for weeks at a time.. and he would tell me that he wasn't home for a week and that he was in town, but he still could have picked up the phone and called me. One night after not seeing each other for over a week, he decided to come over after work probably thinking that he was going to get some but that wasn't going to happen. He was going to stay the night but something "came up" and he had to leave after I told him that I wasn't ready to have sex and that I didn't want to continue to have it. After he left my house which was about three weeks ago... I haven't talked or seen him once.

So here's the conclusion to my Title. Yes I was Used.


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