Irony of love
this isn't really a love story, but an advice for everyone that I think everyone should read that I found on the web.
Love = complicated, but whoever said it's easy? Love is triggered bythe heart and subconsciously controlled by the mind. It can make peopledo crazy things. Love isn't just caring for each other, it goes beyondyour emotions that only you can feel that your heart can interpret.
So yeah I got bored and found this from my friend back in high school =]. Read it..let it sink & understand it. ^.^
"the greatest irony of love is
loving the right person at the wrong time,
having the wrong person when the time is right
and finding out you love someone right after that person walks out of your life.
and sometimes, you think you're already over a person,
but when you see them smile at you,
you'll suddenly realize that you're just pretending to be over them
just to ease the pain of knowing that they'll probably never be yours again
for some, they think that letting go is one way of expressing how much they love that person
and others cant let go out of fear of seeing the one they love being held by someone else
most relationships tend to fail not because the absence of love
love is always present
it's just that one was being loved too much
and the other was being loved too little
most of the time from failure of communication
as we all know the heart is the center of the body
but it beats on the left.
maybe that's the reason why the heart is not always right...
so here's a piece of advice;
let go when you're hurting too much.
give up when love isn't enough.
and move on when things are not like before
because everything happens for a reason
and maybe this was something you needed to experience
in order to prepare you for something bigger and better coming up in your life
for sure there is someone out there who will love you more."
i did not write it but i find it inspirational. I've been heartbroken several times and I have a bad record with relationships, I just tend to attract the bad boys. As many times my heart has been torn, the more beautiful it is because I know that it wasn't my fault the relationship fell through bec i gave my heart but I know he did not. For all the time I've been cheated on and lied to, I've become stronger and a bit bitter. But the hurt only makes me stronger and makes me the person I am today. I'm more understanding and I just let the pieces fall into place now when I'm in a relationship. I take control when necessary and let it slide where destiny will take it. I'm a grown woman even if only 20 and will not depend on any man to make me happy. Love has its flaws, nothing is ever perfect. But once you have a hold of it, appreciate it and let it go if it's not enough anymore....